words of a friend very dear to me..
"i found out that people can know happiness. but this happiness will, most if the time, be short-lived. because it's tough to completely abandon the sad memories. it would be easier if we had the ability to turn back time, then all the 'if only' questions will disappear. but if everything were to fall into perfect place, then we would not have lived life. the journey from cradle to grave should be one full of disappointments, surprises, disasters, happiness, sadness, love, friendships, hopes and dreams..."