Just met the other 3 queens for dinner. toni, fio and lynn. So much has happened ever since we all left RJ..Fio broke up with ZhenXin her 3 years bf and is now attached to Wayne my bizlaw classmate..omggg..Antonia chen that cannot-touch-me and don-emo-me woman is attached too..OMGGG. Even Calista is attached to apparently a really hot swimmer. gosh..things always go the unexpected way.

Sis sent me sth really nice and inspiring today!! haha :

What's with them?
Oprah wrote this about men.

• If a man wants you, nothing can stop them away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
• Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
• Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
• Never live your life for a man before you find what truly makes you happy.
• If a relationship ends because the man was not treating as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
• Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later when things are not better.
• The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
• Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when they got pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
• Always have your own set of friends different from his.
• Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
• If something bothers you, speak up.
• Never let a man knows everything. He will use it against you later.
• You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
• Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are even if he has more education or in a better job.
• Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
• Never let a man define who you are.
• Never borrow someone's else man. If he cheated on her, he will cheat on you.
• A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
• You should not be the one doing all the ending. Compromise is a two-way street.
• You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
• Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
• Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.